Suspicion

"Trust" : it takes so long to gain it, and only seconds to destroy it.

Crazy that something doesn't even have to happen to ruin your trust in some people, sometimes just being suspicious of it is enough to ruin trust. Now, I'm not talking about boyfriend girlfriend crap, I'm talking about with anyone. It can be any kind of relationship you are in, a friendship, a family, a working relationship. Think about it, how many times have you gotten mad or hurt by something, and you didn't even know if it happened? It's so hard in this world to not judge by what you hear. That's why my mama always tells me to be careful with my friends, because you can be guilty by association, and majority of the time you are. So, why do we hang out and have relations with people when we kNOW it's going to cause some kind of problem? Is drama just that fun? Cuz I missed out on the fun drama if that's the case..

My thoughts are basically this: When you do something, and you know it's wrong- stop and think..... If you heard that Jilly Willy did the same thing you were just doing, you'd be gossiping and judging her. But, if you do it yourself, is that okay? Why are we so quick to forgive ourselves for our mistakes, but it can take forever to forgive someone else?

Long story short- don't live your lives through the what ifs. I promise you that you will have enough hardship in your life on it's own, that you don't need to make your own. Live for the moment, and trust until you've been given a reason not to. Would you rather go through your whole life alone knowing you never let anyone in, or know that you had a heart to give someone a chance, and they screwed it up? Don't judge everyone based on what one person has done to you.

XO!